…People that hasn’t gotten there are not stupid, neither are you better than them. Everybody’s journey and dreams defers, yours is not better nor perfect.
Enjoy your privileges, live your dreams and stop rubbing it in the faces of others calling it "advice"!!
Resist the urge to always be an adviser!!
You got married yesterday, Gbam tomorrow you are already advising the singles how to get married just like you.
You get a new job last week, and the next week you are advising the jobless to go get a job…
You gave birth to a new baby, and immediately turn to an adviser to those that doesn’t have a child!
Stop it!
You are not an alpha human just because one of your dreams came true. Don’t forget were you are now was one of your prayer point, and is a past to millions of people…
@renoomokri@akugbeizekor You are hypocrite, you are neither here nor there. You are the definition of a confused human being. All the derogatory words you have use for Bola Tinubu, just to turn around applauding him in this manner means you're nothing but an antagonist, a dog return back to his vomit.
…marriage is not that serious! Stop acting all official in your marriage, have some fun and spice to your marriage.
If you’ve been surviving as a single person, then you are expected to start living as soon as you get married. That’s the purpose according to the scripture.
Some newly wedded couple live life like couples who have been married for decades.
Everything so dull, the home is dead boring, no spice to their marriage. No outings, no games, no activities, no flirting, no romance. Y’all need to chill…
… in one way or the other, an inquisitive man will find out.
for example: If you had previously enhanced your booty, a reasonable man will try to figure out if that was done because of low self esteem or for the sake of attention. That is what make him either accept/respect you.
How far you are willing to go as a lady for attention or to have a man for yourself will determine how men sees you
Do not in anyway think that your past record cannot be retrieved
it’s like a work CV(curriculum vitae) which determines how far you go with your next relationship…
If you are not ready to be vulnerable stay single.
If you’re ‘naturally’ secretive, date your secrets.
Relationships can’t stand without vulnerability, openness and trust.
Vulnerability builds intimacy, which in turn build trust, and trust is the bedrock of a good relationship.
…If they’re not happy in the relationship, if they grew up being sexually abused as a child, or they end up as an adult worker (prostitution) otherwise, before a girl cheat with another man, she must have a strong connection “bond” before she can become sexually intimate.
Men cheats not because they’re born to cheat, but because they can’t discipline themselves enough to keep their penis on check. Although it’s scientifically proven that the male gender has more urge to cheat compare to female…
…That’s why a man could have a beautiful woman, and still cheat on her with a woman who’s ugly.
On the other hand, women cheats not because they feel the urge to, cos Normally a woman will not cheat if she’s happy in a relationship, hence she does if she has the intention to,…
…If they’re not happy in the relationship, if they grew up being sexually abused as a child, or they end up as an adult worker (prostitution) otherwise, before a girl cheat with another man, she must have a strong connection “bond” before she can become sexually intimate.
Men cheats not because they’re born to cheat, but because they can’t discipline themselves enough to keep their penis on check. Although it’s scientifically proven that the male gender has more urge to cheat compare to female.
That’s why a man could have a beautiful woman, and still cheat on her with a woman who’s ugly.
On the other hand, women cheats not because they feel the urge to, cos Normally a woman will not cheat if she’s happy in a relationship, hence she does if she has the intention to,…
…can’t be compared to someone who had never been married, who’s judgment will be likely born out of sentiment.
This is not to say those who are single are never capable of giving the right advice, but it’s better off with someone who has more experiences.
Stop taking relationship advice from singles if you’re married, it’s quite delicate.
Fair enough If they’ve been married before.
Judging a marriage issue from the prospective of someone who had been there, who’s judgment is likely to be triggered by emotion and experience…
Social media has made many fall for the illusion of perfection.
That’s why many are single. You want a partner with the best body, best mind, best spirituality, best in everything.
If you want the best, you don’t need marriage.
Marriage help us grow our imperfections!