Stellson_desire

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[Instablog9ja @instablog9ja]

Tech Enthusiast sparks debate after sharing his take on “Dating-to-marry”

[Uchechukwu Emmanuel @Emmykinng]

@instablog9ja If these two apps are abandoned on your phone, then your life is not really going well.

[Beet-Kon @beet_kon]

@instablog9ja Avoid any woman who is close to her pastor

[Instablog9ja @instablog9ja]

The woman I married hasn’t bought a cow for me before but she bought for her pastor — Man laments

[Miles 👑 @Officialmrmiles]

She wan feel like merlin 😭😂

[Valerie Petralie Wurtz @ValeriePetralie]

@Enezator They need the walk on the beach to remember learn and return again! People stay away from nature if you really don’t understand it …..

[Instablog9ja @instablog9ja]

You’ve Failed Your Family If Men Still Comfortably Ask You Out As A Married Woman— Media Personality Nonso

[Tifee ✌️❤️ @ManiaFG]

115k for removable fake hips just to trick men into thinking you have curves? 😆 🤣 😂

Straight-line queens out here spending like it's surgery because natural body no dey enough. Una go tire slapping silicon every night while real women with God-given shape dey sleep peacefully.

This is peak insecurity & peak fooling, not 'empowerment'. BBL era don die, una still dey force am. Love your flat self or keep deceiving yourself, but stop normalizing this nonsense! 🔥

[BIG LEO🦅 @leodey4u]

repost if you've done this before 😂

[Wild Videos @FightStorage]

She figured it out

[Christy( mother of many Generations) @itzchristunique]

Yes my sister, it's none negotiable and I support this honestly..

So immediately you're pregnant, tell him about it and let him start saving up for the future..

What a real man will do is this;

Once you deliver, he will surprise you with a divorce paper, gently carry his baby, get a nanny to take care of the baby, and probably marry the nanny...

A real man won't allow you to pressure him because you gave birth,

there are thousands of ladies that are willing to give birth even without being married..

As long as you ladies continue making it look like you're doing the man a favor by giving birth to their children, they will keep leaving you and denying you those wishes you want .

So all the baby gifts, saving up for Pampers and making sure you're comfortable after child's birth is not enough?

I am not against a push gift, but trying to set it up as a standard is a big no..

You people are just looking for trouble where there's none.

[I AM NOT A REAL MAN @iamnotarealman_]

@instablog9ja Men are logical beings.
We are paying attention and studying the woman instead because we know that the Gods won't do for men what men can do for themselves

[Topherdzgns @topherdzgns]

lol no we don’t…

Most men don’t grow up dreaming about marriage the same way many women do. It’s usually not something they are actively praying or planning for. A lot of men are more focused on building stability, finances, or personal freedom first, so marriage is not the goal, it is something that happens when the right person comes along.

For many men, the desire to marry is person specific, not institution specific. They are not thinking “I want to get married,” they are thinking “I don’t want to lose this woman.” That is when everything changes. At that point, marriage stops feeling like pressure or obligation and starts feeling like a natural step.

That is also why you see fewer men in spaces that are centered around intentionally seeking marriage. Women tend to be more proactive about it, while men are more reactive and move in that direction when they find someone who truly fits them.

Even with weddings, most men are not concerned about big ceremonies or public validation. What they care about is peace, compatibility, respect, and stability.

So it is not that most men are against marriage. It is that marriage is usually not the starting point. The right person is.

[MANCHA🌐 @ManchaCapitals]

@favour_afoma @instablog9ja If they are not Benefits what are they?

My daugther will cohabit with a man, have discernment, discretion, critical reasoning ability, and above all have SEX because she wants to not because she wants to survive.

I will ensure that as I father......

[CHUKS 🍥 @ChuksEricE]

"All of you that are defending Simi are ev!l people"

- Solomon Buchi

[TENIOLA @Teeniiola]

Omoh, this girl reason go far ooo. We no even know what to believe again 🙂‍↔️

[Stellson_desire @ostellson]

@__BIGTEA @Elladeyforyou A partner’s role is to make life easier for both and no one should be pressured to cook or perform chores based on gender and when u have a partner, u don’t operate as if you’re still single.

[Instablog9ja @instablog9ja]

A brief exchange on X has sparked debate after one user said women need men who can control their anger — while another insisted everyone should control their own emotions

[Stellson_desire @ostellson]

@headking18903 @anna_chichii @DrDanny2030 Dem suppose stone u to death. ANIMAL