Fellow parents: let's teach our kids to fish. Let's equip them with the character they need to do difficult things, to overcome obstacles, to stand up and step forward when others are shying away
You cannot trick your child into good habits. Whether acquiring a good one (eating veggies, regularly exercising) or giving up a bad one (social media, mild addiction).
Good character is not gained by a happy coincidence (or parental contrivance) of circumstances.
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@drpmarais @Sledge_Master01 @ErnstRoets Yes I was going to say similar: by all appearances, Europe IS being colonised by Africans. Will be interesting to see how that plays out.
@AkunaPawa @elonmusk@whyvert Actually, Africa is on the same trajectory. Fertility rates have dropped from around 7.8 (can't recall how many decades ago) to around 4.2 currently... And all the factors impacting fertility elsewhere on the world are running their course in Africa too.
A word of caution dropped in my heart today. A reminder to build patiently and with diligence. To build to last.
I'm still processing it myself, hope it's a blessing to you too.
@kevinnbass Find a church that has an active youth group, so that it's not just 'religion' but a community and friendships. I would go to a church with an emphasis on the Bible as the word of God.
@SteveyG1987@jordanbpeterson @TammyPe67177911 I haven't finished listening, as I started late at night. I already felt uneasy that the full picture wasn't going to come to light. I'll finish watching before further comment ... But wld LOVE if either @jordanbpeterson or @TammyPe67177911 wld research current happenings in SA.
@Thebenificient @BothaColm@SteveyG1987@jordanbpeterson @TammyPe67177911 What do the stats say about white people's education levels, family structure, etc? Before you shout 'legacy of apartheid', how many decades have passed, and how has the ANC improved access to and quality of education, and reformed and rehabilitated family and culture?
@HeSundstrom@RomanCabanac With immanent population decline in most of the developed world, if your grandkids have half a set of skills, they will be incredibly 'exportable' in a decade or two.
Used to consider emigrating 'for our kids', couldn't think of any place worth moving to now.
@natetzu Wrestling with Dad, also a great way to get in touch with his/her body
If your 2 year old is falling enough that's your concerned for their safety, it might be worth finding an ASI trained OT in your area. Bring so young, a few sessions could make a big difference.