An older guy once told me “you’ll reach a point in life when you accept that you’ll never achieve your dreams”
I check in with myself from time to time to make sure I never start believing that loser bs
Clock it King. Just like there’s nothing wrong with sleeping with colleagues, the moment your husband allows you to go out and work instead of making you a fully provided-for rich housewife, he’s basically confessing he can’t meet every single one of your needs.
I was bartending and this girl with her ass out in a tennis skirt asked if there were any specials. I told her we had lemon drips for $9.50 baby girl said “whew I gotta someone up here to pay for this” I thought she was joking, but she spent the next hour FaceTiming men, nobody came. Yal gotta get your lives together.
I lied about liking Red Bull to a guy making conversation so he sent a year supply to me as a gift immediately after, excessive but I like that level of considerate generosity-interest, action & supply
I saw a lady sharing that her man paid all the bills while she went to school and raised their kids. Now she's a registered nurse, and she's holding things down while he studies engineering. That's what partnership looks like.
Your family is full of grown adults who got the same opportunity to make a living for themselves like you did. It’s not your responsibility to hand out money because you’re related. Draw boundaries.