I hate when I make a very basic statement and it blows up and the very next tweet I made was so much more thought-provoking and had a lot of nuance but got 0 traction
there's this myth that men have to always be okay with women entering their spaces AND concede everything they enjoy about it to accommodate said women's arrival
@blue_barks_ I lived a similar experience. It is frustrating when a woman wants you to live like her boyfriend around her but not be one. She said she liked me in the past during different timeframes but always rejected me and I eventually cut ties. It was a time commitment and mental burden.
there's this myth that men have to always be okay with women entering their spaces AND concede everything they enjoy about it to accommodate said women's arrival