Nigerian Men have damaged our Women actually…
That 20yr old babe telling that 20yr old guy “I will bill you” still dey burst my head.
You’re in a relationship with someone.. you’ll be giving her money to do hair, money to do nails, money to register for Gym.. some even go as far as paying tuition fee/house rent and dropping Monthly allowance🤦🏽
When did this thing called Relationship/Love become a Father to Children responsibility ?
PAUSE!
When last did their father even give them money for Wig and Nails ?
I’m not saying you shouldn’t appreciate/gift your lover(both ways)
But my gee, It is not your duty to cater to her “basic needs”
Having to pay for all that feels like you’re telling them “It’s okay to be an irresponsible entity as long as you remain mine”
What do you mean you’re an adult and you can’t keep fit for yourself ?
Get your hair/nails done and look good for yourself ??
Now ask yourself, If we break up NOW and she’s single for a year, how will she make her hair/nails during that 12months ? (Since they always claim they’re doing it to look good for YOU)
She either does it with her money.. Or she’d get it from other Random guys..
And she’d def give sex in return!
So you see you’re only subscribed to hoe-culture all along ?
Your relationship is just glorified prostitution my guy.
@Debbiepaul002 This is no coincidence. This act transpires in different realms, spiritual. Remembering all that happened is a plus so that you can be own your guard.
@YLT_INVESTMENT @DanielRegha The best he offers is "CRITICISM". He believes nothing seems perfect except himself. I hope he is still not battling with childhood trauma.