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@MarxistHeathen @PastCassandra that does change my view

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@lesbchienne @PastCassandra youre right i wasnt paying enough attention to that

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@bassv1ctim i take that back actually what do you mean by queer, i was referring to the political identity here

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@bassv1ctim i dont think anyone is inherently queer and at that same time there isnt any certain way queer should look.

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@Comedytransass @montannnna14 @tonnnic05 what do you take queer to mean, from my understanding it meant anything outside of the traditional sexuality and sex/gender binary, those are also (from my understanding) the ppl queer was a slur against. Correct me if im wrong i could definitely see there being misinfo on this

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@implantgrade evidently there are probably people with lots of both going, but theres no repression/insecurity that necessarily needs to be worked through with being kinda non-binary compared with the other stuff listed

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@implantgrade okay this has been my running theory for the whole trans man lesbian thing, its a very outside of the binary thing so is it just bring a non-binary man?? Idk but im wondering how many t guy lesbians are non-binary vs the other stuff you listed

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@PastCassandra I will say im reconsidering that last bit after the whole podcast thing

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@PastCassandra these people seem to revel in cruelty to trans women.I would expect the event to be advertised as “afab only” or smth like that if the owners were in on it. I cant know that for sure but i think its good to give the benefit of the doubt to even tme trans ppl to know better

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@BBurgeon3155 @wobbledawg They left quickly after going into the party because they were so off put by that despite people being normal inside, im confused how the point youre making applies to the people in this video specifically

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@PastCassandra i mean from what she said i think the bouncer/person monitoring was a rouge transphobe hence why she said she knew the owners were inclusive. Now i think they ought be criticized for not doing more diligence at making sure its clear and there are no transphobes

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@DoUCondomHummus james charles does LMAO

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@Anarchosuchus it depends on if misogyny is informing that but in almost every real world case misogyny is an element

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@Anarchosuchus that is a bad thing and appropriating
terms created by transfeminism. We are white washing them if we choose to keep using them incorrectly and limiting intersectionality along the way

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from my understanding of the framework, a trans woman who is stealth getting catcalled is not transmisogynist but instead just plain misogyny. A trans woman who gets told “being trans is bad” is not transmisogyny its just transphobia

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i really recommend reading the wiki article and especially the “relation to transphobia” tab

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@cautioncarey girl im so lost do you have any text recommendations on this kind of thing.