@JocastaMoney It isn't pity, but there is a reaction.
The actress, unable to cope with being in a lesbian relationship now claims to be a heterosexual male.
The young lesbian was killed with dead naming.
The gay was transed away.
@JocastaMoney No threat to us in any circumstance, even in windowless confined spaces, bemusement that they think/hope that they now look like men, a sense of sadness, a hope that they will find some form of happiness & not encounter too much regret.
"Pity" would be too strong but comes close.
@mapsonburt@KatjaDox@jk_rowling I've got a funny feeling that this person is a bloke playing gender pretender. A woman wouldn't say anything like this about a sexual assault victim.