@sinist3rgore @Gabi_Aman_Fox@Johnlim931 problem with that route is that some might believe a scene or kink = therapy. and it becomes very unhealthy very quickly. sure maybe they want to redo a trauma experience while being in charge of it and with the limits they set. i dont know..i remain in the born with it camp.
@Gabi_Aman_Fox@Johnlim931 @sinist3rgore i have a personal believe we are actually born with a lot of the kinks we end up with. or being Dom or sub leaning. while scene's like this can awake them in you. i think the actual kink has always been there. and seeing it can make you desire it. or imagine yourself in it.