I really hate the anxiety that comes with corporate life. It is 4pm on Sunday evening and I can already feel the pressure of the week ahead breathing down my neck.
I haven't been on twitter today - but someone brought a few of my old tweets to my attention and I can't not address it.
14 years ago, I was 23, so I was definitely not a child. I'm not here to make excuses because I don't have anything to make excuses for. What I can't let anyone do is twist my story to fit false narratives.
In 2012, I lived and helped out at my mom's daycare while I was hustling my music. I tweeted everything that happened in my life, as we all did at the time. Kids can be mischievous. If a child did something I found funny, I tweeted about it. Kids are cute and lovable. I want to hug, kiss and cuddle them. I tweet about it. Nothing I tweeted was from perversion.
I was not famous, so maybe if I was, I would have understood that anything is open to whatever interpretation including being used falsely by a faceless mob. I've never been depraved in my life. You can retweet all the tweets in the world about me loudly crushing on people I admire/d. Or being a cheeky young woman. I wasn't trying to hide it, because I don't have anything to hide.
My team has been deleting some of my tweets because of how sensitive it is for my family. To be honest, I did not want to. I have always spoken against rape and sexual assault even before you knew I existed. It's not a costume I'm wearing, it's who I am. I've never claimed to be perfect. I've never claimed to know everything. I said stop raping women. I stand by it.
Happy resumption day.
Remember not to grumble at the job you once prayed and asked God for.
Every blessing comes with responsibility.
The two are inseparable.
Remember to also treat that job with a sense of ownership. Have a lovely resumption.
A thousand lifetimes wouldn’t be enough, but I’m grateful I get to start with this one. 💍❤️
She said YES, and I’m the happiest man alive.
Time to start practicing the phrase: ‘Yes dear’, ‘Yes love’ in 17 different tones. 💍😅❤️💐
On this series of Her Perspective, we’re looking at how AI is being used to create pornographic content of women without their consent.
It’s a growing form of image-based abuse, and hasn’t been taken seriously enough.
No replies. No interviews. Just silence for 90 days.
Then, I ran my resume through ChatGPT.
Got 5 callbacks in less than a week—using just 9 prompts.
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April is recognized as Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM), a time dedicated to raising public awareness about sexual assault and educating communities on prevention strategies.
Join the movement this April as we act together, united for change!
#SAAM#EndGBV
personally, i don’t believe Nigeria has a skill problem. the real issue is the unrealistic expectations placed on entry-level roles.
if you’re hiring someone with just a year of experience, how do you expect them to already know 70% (or more) of everything the role demands? growth takes time, and learning on the job is part of the process.
how many organizations are even training their staff?