Dear Men,
We can never tend to babies the way our wives will because mothers have a deep connection and attention for babies than we will ever have but we must ensure we do our best to help our wives and love on them at all times, most especially during pregnancy and after.
Babysitting is a full time work, very draining. It can even lead to mental breakdown in some, babies don’t care about your feelings, they will drain you with crying, feeding and needs.
Our wives sacrifice a great deal of their lives, bodies and minds catering to our kids and the household, we may not be perfect as men but we cannot be ignorant of their sacrifices.
Since we had Newness (our son), I have been to the market often, I discovered a kilo of turkey is #7,500, a kilo of goat meat is #8,000 🤣 na the ones wey concern me I sabi.
Frankly, an average stew costs some good money these days so if your wife is asking some hundreds of thousands for household funds, don’t flare up, things are actually expensive out there!!
It is our place to ensure our families do not lack.
Our wives shouldn’t really be catering to kids while figuring out how the family will feed etc
The strain on many wives is too much.
We must be empathetic as men!
After pregnancy, we should allow our wives’ bodies reset before getting all intimate.
We should massage them as often as we can also.
We should prepare for the baby financially, pampers, food, breast pumps, electricity in the house, clothes, fuel in the generator etc
And women are different, some women have the capacity to bear a lot of stress while some fall under the weight, in any case, a lot of empathy and care is appropriate.
I don’t love my wife as Christ loves the church but I sha Dey try the one wey I fit do.
Make all of us Dey try Dey go✈️✈️✈️