✨Twin Blessings, Double Grace✨
It's Peculiar Twins Birthday
Today, we stand in awe of God’s endless love.
Graceful. Mercified. Beautified. Loved. Perfected. 💜💜
Two hearts, one journey — wrapped in divine mercy and crowned with purpose.
When I was dating my husband, my mother took his name to all her pastors and they were all saying the same thing to her...."he won't marry your daughter, he just wants to use your daughter and dump her"
One day, she went to a prophets house and the prophet told her the same thing that he doesn't want to marry me but just use me, she came back home and was furious.
She called me to talk to me, she asked me to break up with Pharm Buchi because he is deceiving me that he's not my husband, I told her I won't do it until she gives me concrete proof and not prophecies, my mother was very pissed that I wasn't giving in to her.
When I went inside, I kept thinking to myself, A man that loves me selflessly, a man that carries my chronic asthma on his head and has been treating me, a man that pays for my medical bills no matter how much it costs, a man that cares for me like I'm a baby, a man that is very transparent with me about his life and finances, a very truthful human, I should just break up with him because of prophecies? GOD forbid!!
The next day, I called my mum and told her to leave me alone with my choice and stop telling me about her prophecies, if he dumps me, let it be, I won't break his heart to please you and your prophets because I trust him with my life.
5 years of dating, 9 years of marriage, 4 beautiful children, a lovely family and Pharm Buchi has remained the sweet soul he is, I look back today and I thank GOD I have a mind of my own 🙏
My husband remains my greatest blessing in life, waking up next to him is such a gift I'm always grateful for ❤️🙌
Buchi and Buchiress
BSc - Medical laboratory science
MSc - Molecular medicine with distinction
MSc - International regulatory science
PhD - Pharmaceutical and Biomedical science
Cert - Clinical trial design and management
Cert - Int regulatory science
Beverly Hirsh Frank Fellow
Too many to remember
Me I don't know ooo.
But I find it weird seeing women calling their men "babe".
It sounds like feminizing the men.
I don't understand how a man with okpukpu all over his body will be answering "babe".
"babe, I miss you"
"babe, have you eaten?"
Very irritating.
End.
I saved for months to attend a Christian conference where my favorite preacher was ministering.
Not just any seat.
Front row.
Close enough to hear every word clearly.
Before the session started, a lady tapped my shoulder.
“Hi,” she smiled softly. “My church group is seated here, but my ticket is for the overflow hall downstairs.
Would you mind swapping with me?”
I looked at her badge, then mine.
“I’m really sorry,” I said kindly, “but I sacrificed a lot to be here.”
Her expression changed immediately.
She turned to her friends and said loudly,
“Imagine coming to a Christian gathering and refusing to show love.”
Another girl added,
“We’re believers.
Why are Christians so selfish these days?”
I stayed quiet for a moment, then replied gently:
“If giving away a seat is the loving thing to do, why doesn’t one of you swap with her and sit downstairs?”
Silence.
Nobody moved.
Nobody volunteered.
And in that moment, I learned something important:
Many people admire sacrifice when it costs someone else.
But wisdom is knowing that saying “no” does not make you less like Christ.
Whoever brought about this idea of adding free baby wipes to this My girl sanitary pad needs a salary increase.
Because what do you mean a girl can get up to 30 pieces of sanitary pads and still get free baby wipes for just #1,900
Went to get sanitary pads and I saw this, didn’t even think twice before taking it.
To my beautiful ladies, have you seen this and will one getting it ???
It’s our wedding anniversary today!❤️
13 years ago, this journey began, and looking back, we can only say God has been faithful through every season.
Please join us in celebrating this special day as we mark our wedding anniversary.
Happy anniversary to us ❤️🥂 xx
I've been married 15 years. Still married because we treat these like law:
• Bed is for sleep and sex only
• No phones in bedroom
• Kids asleep? We talk. 5 mins or 3 hours. Doesn't matter. We talk
• Pray together before sleep
• We eat every meal together
• No screens when eating
• And we never, and I mean NEVER criticize each other in public
Your marriage is your son's blueprint, and your daughter's standard.
Make sure you lead at the front and everyone will follow.
I will not force my kids to go to church as my mum did to me.
All I know is I’m locking an empty house at 8am every Sunday and I must not reach church before you.
It wasn’t a stranger who hurt me.
It was family.
The kind that sits in your living room, eats your food, calls you “my own.”
I was preparing for my introduction. The excitement, the planning, the quiet prayers for a peaceful future. Everything felt aligned.
She was my aunt. Someone I respected. Someone who spoke about God, about wisdom, about doing the right thing.
When she asked for his number, it felt normal.
“I just want to pray for him,” she said.
“To guide him. To encourage him.”
I didn’t hesitate.
Why would I?
That’s what family does… right?
At first, it was just messages.
Then it became calls.
Then silence started growing between me and the man I was about to marry.
Something felt off, but I couldn’t explain it.
Until the truth found me.
Not gently. Not kindly.
The same woman who prayed with me…
was talking to him behind my back.
The same man who promised me forever…
was entertaining her attention.
And when everything broke open, do you know what hurt the most?
Not just what they did.
But what he said.
“It’s because you gave her my number.”
In that moment, I realized something painful.
Some people will betray you…
and still find a way to make you carry the guilt.
I didn’t scream.
I didn’t fight.
I just went quiet.
Because there are some pains that don’t need noise.
They just need distance.
Today, she is battling several illnesses .
And me?
I’m healing.
Not because they apologized.
But because I chose to stop bleeding for people who never deserved me.
Some betrayals don’t destroy you.
They reveal you.
And I finally saw myself clearly…
Someone who deserved better all along.
Girl, I almost fell for this lie.
I nearly married a Muslim man. He would drop me at church, remind me to go, even talked about meeting my parents. It all looked right, but deep down I knew it wasn’t.
I didn’t want to leave my church or raise Muslim children, but I ignored it because I thought love would conquer.
Then I met his parents. They asked me when I was converting to Islam. Later he said, “Once we’re married, all that church will stop.”
That was when my eyes opened.
Sis, don’t be deceived. Not everything that looks supportive is aligned with your faith. They will convert you eventually
If you stand near faeces for a while, you stop smelling it. Not because it has stopped smelling but because you're now used to it.
Same way, if you tolerate rubbish for a while, it stops looking like rubbish to you.
From my DM.
"So my mother-in-law is currently doing omugwo in my house. I noticed that whenever my wife finishes cooking, she serves her first. But that’s not the issue, Sir.
On a cool evening, my Father-in-Law came around to see us.
Coincidentally, my elder brother came too. So my wife finished cooking, served her father, served my elder brother and her mother before serving me, in my own house.
I felt insulted and disrespected. I was thinking the right thing to do is bring me my food first, then I will tell her to serve others then wait for her to finish serving them before we proceed to eating. Am I overthinking this Sir?"
End.
Christian women, stop marrying Muslim men‼️
Stop it! Their aim is to convert you and your children to Islam.
Read your Bible and get to know God. Stop being deceived by the lie that “we worship the same God” no, we don’t and never will. 👎
You hardly ever see a Muslim girl marry a Christian. Those people don’t joke with their faith; no matter how much they love you, they will never leave their religion for you.
Read the Bible.
Get to know God.
Stand firm in your belief.
Build a relationship with God.
Love God.
And raise godly Children for Jesus.
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