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Leadership & Career Peak Performance Coach, Family Business Advisor. 画龙点睛,活用资治通鉴. Working across borders from Singapore

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@joetsai1999 江山易改,本性难移....may this guide your course in @BrooklynNets off season moves.

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#Wisdom2Reign

The state of peak performance occurs when we are in a rhythm of ease, not extremes. Like the string of a badminton racket loose strings equals no power while tight strings means sacrificing refined net shots.

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#FamilyFirms
#VentureBuilding
#RetainedSearch

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#Wisdom2Reign

Making adjustments is usually needed for preventing derailments in our careers, climbing to the next level of our professions, or relating meaningfully among family members. There is no magic wand.

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#FamilyFirms
#VentureBuilding
#RetainedSearch

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Rivalries increase when people in close relationships are aiming for the same summit, according to social psychology research. Significant implications for couples, siblings in business, and best friends.

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#FamilyBusiness
#VentureBuilding
#RetainedSearch

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I had great laugh with a #familybusiness client this week on 'Intergenerational Influence' - "Parents in Indian families are like gods. No, actually we in our family are even bigger and louder than gods."

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#FamilyBusiness
#VentureBuilding
#RetainedSearch

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Can you see someone scaling the high mountains being disorganized with his or her climbing equipment? It might be possible but that's inviting unnecessary risks and delays. Being organized makes life easier

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#FamilyFirms
#VentureBuilding
#RetainedSearch

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We all have days in which our hard work remains in the dark, whether we are corporate executives, family business leaders, startup founders, craftspeople or parents. Nevertheless, the bright days will come.

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#FamilyFirms
#VentureBuilding
#RetainedSearch

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Some of us are like wild horses that sprint off in a heartbeat while others move so slowly like a cow. A good coach helps you recognize the timing, nudging or dissuading you. This is one of the reasons successful executives work with coaches.

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#FamilyFirm

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#Wisdom2Reign

The words we choose, the context of the conversation, how much to say, and, sensing a rhythmic flow are all important elements of a dialogue. Ignore them and we will find ourselves not being taken seriously.

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#FamilyFirms
#VentureBuilding
#RetainedSearch

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#Wisdom2Reign

A #familyfirm client texted me in the wee hours, extremely upset with his family. Thankfully he regain composure after this text, 'There is a lot of dirt in the excavation journey of finding gems in both of you. Keep going'

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#FamilyFirms
#VentureBuilding

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Unless we live in a cave, seeking solace in a monastery, or, serving a quarantine order, we will have lots of relationships. It is important to establish and maintain healthy relationship boundaries

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#FamilyFirms
#VentureBuilding
#RetainedSearch

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As leaders why would we lead everyone in the same manner when individuals come in different tendencies of their own?

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#FamilyFirms
#VentureBuilding
#RetainedSearch

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#Wisdom2Reign

Vincent van Gogh used bright yellow in his work, so it would have been easy to mistake him for a cheerful fellow. He was mostly depressed instead.

Managing and leading individuals requires us to understand them well, not just knowing at the surface.

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#Wisdom2Reign

Never ignore the bad habits we have, nor forget about cultivating the good ones. Life has a way of catching up on us with a big grin, 'It's payback time!'

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#VentureBuilding
#FamilyFirms
#RetainedSearch

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Lots of room for improvement for #familybusinesses Chinese pork tycoon quits, leaving firm in non-family hands after son’s sacking

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#Wisdom2Reign

We don't grow when we walk away from an opportunity that will stretch us, or quit our jobs out of frustration.

Embrace the tough situation and beauty will emerge.

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#VentureBuilding
#FamilyFirms
#RetainedSearch

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Business can be challenging and families can be painful for some. Combined, Family Businesses are complex and requires a holistic approach. So glad to work with my friend Sundraj as he weaves healing to a hurting family business client.

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#FamilyFirm

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#Wisdom2Reign

It's natural to want a promotion, to dream of a better life, and to long for greener pastures, but do you really know how your 'Next Level' look like, or it is blurry?

Can't work on it till we see it clearly.

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#VentureBuilding
#FamilyFirm
#RetainedSearch

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#Wisdom2Reign

Over the weekend my son was caught in the crossfire between two good friends. Missing project timelines and precious friendships were at stake. He mediated by asking each a few questions. It's all good now!

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#VentureBuilding
#FamilyFirms
#RetainedSearch

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#Wisdom2Reign

We miss growth opportunities and authentic relationships when we run from conflicts.

It is like a light bulb plugged but not switched on.

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#VentureBuilding
#FamilyFirm
#RetainedSearch