Dear young men,
Especially those of you between the ages of 27-33 and are still single.
This is how you know that you may have found your wife:
1. She's highly interested in what you do legitimately for a living, actively trying to encourage you to build your career or business, and always looking out for other opportunities for you.
2. If you live alone, she takes initiatives without being told by observing your home and trying to buy things she knows you need to live a better life in preparation for marriage.
3. She will hardly ask you for money, not because she doesn't need it, but because it's easy for her to get money from other men. And she knows that taking money from other men is an "invitation to treat", and can destroy her relationship with you. And she wouldn't want to make you feel that she's with you for your money, too.
4. When you give her money to do certain things, either for you or for her, she'll try to give you an account of how she spent the money.
5. She keeps boundaries with your friends and doesn't try to compare you with them. Rather, she would look out for that friend whom she observes has your best interests at heart, and encourage you to stay close to him.
6. She will not use sex as a weapon in the relationship, neither would she use it as a bargaining chip.
7. She actively gives you updates on how her day went, and she doesn't come to your house with her phone on silent mode or airplane mode.
8. She will try to abide by how you like her to dress, and she'll listen to you when you caution her about certain behavior that you do not like.
9. She'll actively want you to know her siblings and show interest in and respect for your siblings as well.
10. She'll not hold back if you ask her to lend you money, if she has it. But you, the man, must keep to your words when paying her back.
11. She'll bend many rules for you, but you should not take undue advantage of it.
12. She'll stress you sometimes, and test you in as many ways as possible. She's doing all that to see how well you can lead her, and how well you can control your emotions or anger.
13. She'll make mistakes. But you should use it as a teaching moment for her. If you don't judge her too harshly, she'll start to listen to you more. When you make a woman trust you with her vulnerability, she'll overlook some of your excesses.
14. She'll actively seek your validation and yours alone; whatever you say is good for her, she will accept it. And she won't care what the world says or feels about her.
15. She will not force you to be religious, but she will actively observe whether you respect God, because a man without God may not be a good leader.
If you have a lady that can do at least 10 out of the 15, you may have found your wife.
And remember, when you choose your wife, you have chosen your destiny.
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LEARN TO ZIP YOUR MOUTH:
1. Your are buying a house? - Zip it
2. You are purchasing a car? - Zip it
3. You are going on vacation? - Zip it
4. You are going to get Your Degree? - Zip it
5. You got promoted? - Zip it
6. You have a good man? - Zip it
7. You have a good woman? - Zip it
99% of the time our dreams don't come true when they are supposed to because we open our mouth too soon to the wrong people at the wrong time.
Whatever GOOD you do for a woman only lasts 24 hours in her memory.
Women have short-term memory for the GOOD things done for them, but long-term memory for the BAD things done to them.
They are naturally ungrateful beings. They hate it when we say this, but it’s the truth.
People who have unlimited expectations, make too many demands, are never satisfied, and constantly make comparisons will always be ungrateful.
“Oh, you want me to thank you for buying me flowers when your friends are buying cars and giving their wives and girlfriends money?” Sounds familiar, right?
This is why the phrase
“bare minimum” and what have you done for me” Are very common among women.
You can fund her entire education, be there for her when she was sick, take care of her family…but if you refuse to celebrate
Valentine’s Day for her, she will forget all those things, hold onto that one day, and make you out to be the bad guy. Women focus more “ how I feel now” rather than HISTORY. don’t kill yourself.
I'm in my 20’s and I've never had sex before.
Thank God for the spirit of contentment my parents taught me sha, because I know what a lot of guys have done just to have sex to feel among
Just rejected a job offer.
The pay was good, the working hours were fair and the office looked great.
Everything checked out.
Then they said I’d be coding without AI.
Abeg, it’s not me you will stress 😂
- 10x WWE World Champion
- NCAA Heavyweight Champion
- UFC Heavyweight Champion
- IWGP Heavyweight Champion
- 2x Royal Rumble winner
- 2002 KOTR winner
- 2019 MITB winner
- The 1 in 21-1.
A once-in-a-lifetime athlete.
Happy 49th Birthday to the one & only, BROCK LESNAR! 🎉
Three things that can ruin a man, no matter how strong he thinks he is:
1. When your wife is having sex with other men and spending the money she gets from these men to cook meals for you.
2. When your wife is sleeping with other men and then comes back to give you the same body she shared with such men.
3. When you know all of this is happening and still choose not to divorce her.