@wealthbuildin15 Raising children in 850 sqrt place is torture. Also, even they only had 1 kid when they bought the 2000 sqrt house, it is highly possible that they are just starting. There will be 2rd or 3rd kid coming.
@Duderichy age matters . Under 3 is too young for daycare. And bringing mother dying up is such a fucked up example. You don't think those kids would be better off with mothers around?!
@frenbilt Top 10% earner doesn't mean much if you don't disclose your spending habits, the city you live in (life expense). Like 1 sde in San Francisco makes much more than a plumber living in small town texas. But hey that plumber could probably afford a house.
@GiaMMacool@rob_avis_ramble Me and my husband both stay home with our two kids. Comfort is the last thing we think about .... we are struggling every day. The days are fun, but also very stressful and busy. If her youngest kid is younger than 3 yr old, damn I would cut her some slack.
@Mericamemed ... feminism is not the problem. Lack of time is. Any parent with small kids understands this. The time you spend making that butter, you could use to make so much food for the family, or house chores, or teach the kids something. Like the list goes on.
@noampomsky Dieting and exercise culture is way more popular now compared to 2 -3 decades ago. My mom would complain her belly fat and still eat lots of rice and not exercise, which is common in her generation