@writingiswar There is no understanding it. Womens standard sizing hasn't been updated since 1952 and included waist training. No..my bust is not 12" bigger than my waist!
@JessLTwrites Nope, it's the bravest decision you ever make. Deciding to face your cemons with the weapons that work is hard and scary. Deciding to do that in the face of societal bias makes you a badass.
@geostylegeo This makes it sound li,like, that's a solo journey. It doesn't have to be. You don't HAVE to work on your trauma issues, but don't use it as excuses for poor behavior either.
@Latina_Schatje Cute should be reserved for puppies and babies. Calling an adult "cute" just feels wrong to me, like it's a jab at thier size. Adults are gorgeous, beautiful, elegant, handsome or even debonair...
@MtnDewJitsu Use the labels that feel right. Personally, I like "gender nonconforming". I'm she/her but present as fairly male. I'm just as likely to be knitting as I am to be changing my oil.
@sparkavery Whenever I need to feel pretty,I put on the sexy undies. It's like having this secret that's just for me. I usually pair them with my Wolverine socks, cause those make me feel fierce. Then I cover it in clothes, but its still my secret.
@FlorenceLaw9 I'm a line editor and I like to think I'm kind, but I'm not a cheerleader. If the first chapter reads like "See Spot Run" I'm going to tell you, unless you are writing a children's book.
@StoneyD The fedora started in the 1920s, but its close cousin, the Trilby goes back to the mid 1800s and was a woman's style. They were popular pretty much anywhere fashionable people were.