Curious lang?
Ano kaya feeling na may taong willing to go above and beyond just to be with you? Yung pupunta kahit malayo ka. Yung di na kailangan i convince kasi siya mismo ilalaban ka sa relasyon.
Anong pakiramdam ng may pipili sayo ng buo kahit mahirap, kahit inconvenient?
If you ended a relationship and realized they didn't go looking for another person, didn't go out partying, but instead started running, training, taking care of themselves, and distancing themselves from everyone so they could overcome themselves... I'm sorry to tell you that they truly did love you.
And I'm sorry to say you let a very good person slip away, one you won't find again... not even in another lifetime.
We think we want sex.
It’s not always about sex.
It’s intimacy we want.
To be touched. Looked at.
Admired. Smiled at.
Laugh with someone.
Feel safe.
Feel like someone’s really got you.
That’s what we crave.
Most long-term relationships aren't actually held together by "passionate love" anymore. They are held together by a survival pact. It’s an agreement to split the crushing weight of adulthood. The internet wants you to believe that love is endless romance, but by year seven, love is just looking at your partner in the dark and saying, "The world is absolutely brutal out there, let's just try not to make it harder for each other today."
The hardest psychological pill you will ever have to swallow is realizing you are a victim of the "Mirror Fallacy."
You keep getting betrayed, used, and disappointed by people, and you sit around wondering why you have such bad luck. You don't have bad luck. You have a massive projection problem.
You keep looking at other people and expecting them to have your heart, your work ethic, and your sense of loyalty. You assume that because you would never lie to them, they would never lie to you. Because you would give them your last dollar, they would do the same.
People do not operate with your moral compass. Stop projecting your own character onto people who have repeatedly shown you they operate on pure survival and selfishness. You are breaking your own heart by expecting lions to eat grass just because you are a vegetarian.
@RobbieMeriales ...the right to multiple opinions also by different HCPs. Di ko lang siguro naphrase ng tama yung situation :)) but thanks for this! :)
Unpopular opinion, I think, but i find it disrespectful na people ask me abt certain procedures pero sa iba nila ipagawa. Parang you value my opinion about it pero you don't trust me enough to do it? Just ask na lang yung provider mo for their thoughts since sila naman gagawa 😅
@RobbieMeriales ...done by them. Paranag ang nangyari kasi is, sakin nagtanong like super random na question, outside of consultation hours, tas ipapagawa na nila sa iba, di na nila tinanong yung pinagpagawan nila HAHAHA. But I get also where youre coming from and agree naman ako na they have...