I've noticed that men don't like women being women anymore. You can't express emotions, be a little dramatic at times, or even be sensitive.
It's almost as if they prefer to be in a relationship with someone more like a man.
We are so obsessed with dating and marrying financially stable partners in this generation that we forget to check if they are mentally and emotionally stable. If they're spiritually sound and have been raised well. If they know the value of family and peace!!!!!
A cheating man is bad enough. But you know what’s even worse? A man who pretends to be a good person, when in reality is a pathological liar, a lustful manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim.
Y’all don’t know how many people actually go through stuff & never speak on it .. just imagine how heavy a person heart be but will do any & everything to make sure everybody around them straight. Show people some grace!
“He has childhood trauma.” So do I.
“He’s under a lot of pressure at work.” So am I.
“He’s just overwhelmed.” Me too.
The only difference is that we excuse men’s behavior, and shame women for not carrying it.
I WATCHED MY COWORKER CRY IN HIS CAR FOR 20 MINUTES, THEN WALKED BACK IN SMILING LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED. PEOPLE REALLY BE FIGHTING SILENT BATTLES EVERY DAY. PLEASE BE NICE TO PEOPLE
So many people stil don't understand that their partner's request for change is not asking them to change who they are, but to modify the PATTERNS that are hurting the RELATIONSHIP..