Will AI really lead to human extinction? Many catastrophic scenarios are highly speculative, and treating them as inevitable can fuel panic and distract from the real safety challenges AI poses today. We should acknowledge long-term risks without assuming the worst is inevitable.
🚫This is how SECURE people respond to AVOIDANTS
Avoidants pull away when things get too close.
But Secure people don’t chase, panic, or self-abandon.
They respond with clarity — and protect their peace.
Here’s what that actually looks like
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If someone drugs you and sexually assaults you for hours, you should be legally allowed to take them out in self-defense, like at that point you’re literally fighting for your life
My manager had one rule during meetings: “No interruptions. If you have something to say, write it down & wait until the end.” we all followed it. Next meeting, he announced a new salary policy, asked if anyone had questions, nobody spoke & ended the meeting.
The next morning...
My ex’s mother asked if she could come to my wedding in Cebu.
Her message arrived eleven days before I married another man.
“Anak, pwede ko motambong sa imong kasal? Bisan sa likod lang ko.”
“Sweetheart, may I attend your wedding? I can sit at the back.”
I read it three times.
Then I turned my phone facedown beside my fiancé.
“Who was that?” he asked.
I started crying before I could explain.
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I met Tita Lorna when I was nineteen.