Maturity taught me that not every woman is a Proverbs 31 woman. And that’s okay!
Some are Deborahs: Called to lead, to speak boldly, and to stand on the front lines.
Some are Ruths: Faithful in quiet places, steady when no one is watching.
Some are Esthers: Positioned for influence, courage rising at the exact moment it’s needed.
Some are Marys: Chosen for surrender, carrying purpose before understanding.
Some are Hannahs: Shaped by prayer, strengthened through waiting and tears.
Sometimes kufunza in remote areas ni kazi ngumu, learners with zero motivation to learn, parents who don't care about their kids progress in schools, lack of facilities and resources, yaani unataka kujituma lakini nobody cares...
One of my male friend got married and stopped posting other women on their birthdays.
He didn’t post me too. He just sent a message. He doesn’t even leave comments on women’s post on social media anymore.
I respect this tbvh.
Clear boundaries as a married man>>>>
“He has childhood trauma.” So do I.
“He’s under a lot of pressure at work.” So am I.
“He’s just overwhelmed.” Me too.
The only difference is that we excuse men’s behavior, and shame women for not carrying it.
You shame people for getting pregnant,you shame them for also being responsible.
Let people be for heaven's sake.
Facts is that at 20,most people are sexually active.
ile siku you’ll see your ‘avoidant’ with someone they actually really like ndio utajua anaku kitu kama avoidant…they just dont rate you enough (ouch ik)🤣🤣🤣
i keep a document on my phone called "things that felt like the end of the world but weren't."
every time i'm spiraling i add to it. then i read the old ones.
"didn't get into first choice college" (met my best friend at second choice).
"thought i'd never get over them" (can barely remember their face now.
it's becoming proof that i can survive everything.
even this.
My colleague got promoted before her husband.
The salary increase was massive.
Everyone at work celebrated with her.
Then someone asked:
"How did your husband react?"
She smiled awkwardly and said:
"He doesn't know yet."
We thought she was joking.
She wasn't.
Three months later, she still hadn't told him.
Her reason?
Once I realized I can import products on AliExpress cheaply, I have never looked back. I bought cycling gloves in Eldoret at Ksh. 1200, exactly the same cycling gloves on AliExpress costed KSh. 400.
Similar to protective glasses that I bought at 1400 in Eldoret while the same costed 500 on AliExpress.
Get your products from AliExpress. It saves you money.
Do not watch (The Polygamist) as a couple if you still have unresolved cheating issues. It will definitely trigger the victim between the two of you👀
I love how they showed what it does to a child from outside to watch her siblings get the best of everything while they struggle eKasi💔…
I loved every character🔥🔥🔥🔥