I love miserable sex i love dubcon i love when the relationship is inherently askew or unethical due to its genesis or the power imbalance & theyre both trying to ignore it. i love it when its bad. let's all write about miserable sex more often
@darkshojo There's such a huge problem in fandom spaces with failure to understand that we're all different, even if our experiences are in some way similar. We're not in solidarity with victims until we can peacefully accept that their lives are not our lives.
🧵 re my earlier thoughts/recent posts:
IME this is best exemplified by what I'd personally call The Angel Dust Problem.
Regardless of your thoughts on Hazbin, it's a great example:
Most people who were groomed as kids or teens were not groomed using fiction. In most cases, they were groomed using "empathy," "understanding," the promise of a safe space, and the normalization of harmful behaviours. +
@ValkosPupper Exactly! You can protect your own space without creating a nuisance that harms other real people or slows down the reporting system for real crimes.
@SkipTweets_ I'm sorry you went through that, too. It's the worst feeling in the world, taking one of our best qualities and using it to mislead and harm us.
if your adhd friend is “ghosting” you there’s this neat little hack called “text them again because they obviously just forgot to reply and it’s not personal”
It was only because they guessed you'd be susceptible to their assertions, to their tactic.
Bad people exist. They do bad things. They always have, they always will. There is no one thing we can point to that will enable us to categorically avoid predators. +