“make your own content and be satisfied” is nice in theory but if you’ve ever been in a dead fandom or into a rarepair you start to understand that it actually just makes you go insane
To reiterate: finding fujoshi in your fandom is like finding earthworms in your soil. It's a sign of ongoing fertility and a promise of growth to come. Only fools are disgusted by us. True gardeners love to see us wriggling around in their land.