Which is normal. Private conversations often ask for a different kind of presence. They can require more attention, emotional capacity, and intention than casual one on tl, and we know that conversation deserves more of us than we’re currently able to give.
DO NOT TRUST KS'S FAMILY. THIS SHOULD GO WITHOUT SAYING BUT PEOPLE ARE TAKING HER FAMILY'S STATEMENTS AT FACE VALUE AND ASSUMING THE SITUATION IS NOT AS DIRE AS IT ACTUALLY IS THANKS TO THAT. *DON'T BE STUPID*.