Stop being so considerate in situations where you aren't even considered. It’s okay to be nice. But if you’re sacrificing your own needs and wants to make someone else happy - you’re sliding into “too nice” territory. This will only lead to resentment and frustration.
Right now life is teaching me the law of detachment. Nothing is really yours, you gotta be comfortable with not being attached, just enjoying life for what it is & moving on when it’s time.