If a relationship is too peaceful, one of them is an avoidant, or both.
Avoidants love when everything is rosy, chemistry is top notch, sex is great, y’all match each others vibes so well, but immediately something happens that needs an apology or responsibility, the relationship becomes a threat to them
All of a sudden, the person is too serious, too sensitive, they don’t want any issues at all, “it’s not that deep” and eventually they discard you meanwhile you were only trying to build something real with them
So yes, it’s a red flag when it’s too peaceful, conflict is normal in relationships
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After a breakup, the loyal ones take time to heal, reflect, and process the pain. The narcissist usually rushes to find someone new to fill the void and feed their ego.
y a une fille qui a dit sur tiktok son rêve c’est de vivre un goumin. Moi je crois vous sous-estimez bcp les douleurs amoureuses, déjà c’est une douleur inexplicable, tu peux mourir de chagrin, tu peux maigrir comme grossir, t’es TRAUMATISÉ. Soyez contente d’avoir évité ça.
You have not experienced heartbreak until you get to a point where you have to literally go on your knees and beg God to remove the thought of that person from your heart because you are so hurt that you can physically feel the pain.
Heartbreak is so terrible that it can cause panic attacks or even send you to a sick bed.
You could be in class, at work, in church, at the gym, and all of a sudden, you are crying.
You wake up some days and your heart aches so badly. Or it is the triggers like music, perfumes, restaurants, shows, etc. that start ruining your mood because they remind you of them.
It just gets to a point where your only resort is to legit beg God to take the pain away.
We joke about it a lot, but if you have experienced a severe heartbreak before, you know exactly what I am talking about.
There is nothing that can take the pain away. But eventually, you will find a way to live with it. There will be nightmares. And every day when you wake up, it will be the first thing you think about. Until one day, it will be the second thing.