I love a good man, one that listen to you & change his ways. One that do things without having to be asked. One that adore the ground you walk on, never stops chasing you even after he gets you, One that respects you no matter what. One that’s scared to lose you! he loves you.
Green flags in a man
1•He can be upset and still talk to you respectfully
2•He doesn't keep you out too late and makes sure you get home safely
3•He communicates if he's going to be late
4•He submits to God before he ever asks about submission from you
5•He solves problems rather than cause them
Here goes!
1. Don’t embarrass me in public then try and love me louder in private. Fix your behaviour, not your image.
2. Akho “she’s just a friend I’ve known forever” situations. Boundaries must be visible.
3. If going out is part of your personality, we are not compatible. Home must also be somewhere you want to be.
4. Don’t flirt for entertainment.
5. Don’t tell me how “crazy” your exes were. This is not a character investigation.
6. If everyone you’ve dated still has access to you… remove me from your list too.
7. I don’t want to compete. Not with friends, exes, coworkers, or your phone.
8. Don’t speak to me disrespectfully then expect softness from me after. Tone matters so much. I’ll hear it.
9. If you move funny when I’m not around… I move permanently.
10. Don’t be secretive and call it “privacy.” Be direct about which one you mean.
11. Being generous is a mindset. Stinginess in effort, time, or care is a MAJOR deal breaker.
12. Don’t involve outsiders in our business. Our relationship will not be a group project.
13. If you make me question where I stand with you more than once… I’ll stand somewhere else.
14. Don’t try and humble me, control me, or “teach me a lesson.” I am not a life curriculum.
15. Finally, please don’t make promises you plan to outgrow. Being silent is FREE.
I would do that for my siblings without question, but I know people who siblings don’t deserve shit but fists, so it’s definitely a family by family basis.