Male victim of female domestic abuser and father of child suffering child abuse from her mother. Fighting for justice for my children, myself and other parents
Welcome to the #Pateley Project! Fighting to bring an alcoholic domestic abuser to justice for the on-going safety of a vulnerable child and campaign for changes in UK approaches to #DomesticAbuse and #ChildAbuse through parental alienation
Id like accountability for every woman and child harmed by the state.
Id like every public servant involved in that harm held accountable for their crimes.
Id like them all named.
Us men don't matter. @CPSUK@NYorksPolice@CommissionerDA Sleep what is that? I have lost everything I cared about and still the CPS hound me and hound me.
It truly boggles my mind how many professionals have deemed it “in the best interest of the children” to sever their relationship with me as their mother.
1.Cafcass - spearheading my demonisation alongside the father, spreading their narrative to all.
2.Doctors’ safeguarding leads - ignoring the harm happening right in front of them.
https://t.co/b4MKLplX60 services - endorsing the lies and dismissing the evidence.
4.The school principal - turning a blind eye to blatant safeguarding failures.
https://t.co/GrmnhQSBG2 court magistrates - rubber-stamping harmful decisions without reading the evidence.
6.The school wellbeing lead - prioritising convenience over the children’s needs.
https://t.co/7wkRbglmLk court judges - upholding the status quo rather than protecting the children.
Not a single one of these individuals or organisations has considered the lifelong damage caused to two children by removing their mother—a mother who:
1.Provides a stable, loving home.
2.Maintains a stable job.
3.Has family ready to support and love the children.
4.Has a husband who has given his all to care for and love the children.
5.Has a clear credit record.
6.Has no cautions, no convictions, and no history of harming her children.
7.Has no police involvement or evidence against her.
Instead, they’ve chosen to focus on the words of the father—the lies of the father—allowing him to lead a campaign of complete and utter destruction against me.
Each and every one of these professionals has:
•Ignored evidence.
•Dismissed abuse happening right before their eyes.
•Endorsed and enabled coercion and harm.
They’ve shut me out completely. Closed ranks against me. Labeled me as crazy, rigid, blunt. Declared me a “risk of future potential harm” based on nothing but hearsay and assumptions.
How is this in the best interest of the children?
It isn’t. It never was. And the damage they are causing will be felt for generations.
This. @Blueblur2023 spot on:
"When you became a mother, you stated that it was the day you stopped being selfish. 🙏"
@mensrightsbunny thank you both for speaking the truth.
@mensrightsbunny She’s not even my mother, and I feel cringe. 😩
What’s with the seemingly increasing number of mothers caring so little about how their behaviors affect their children?
When you became a mother, you stated that it was the day you stopped being selfish. 🙏
@jadeblueLDN No worries. You are an inspiration as the @CPSUK have treated me appallingly as a victim of corruption and abuse. I have been very suicidal and remain so. Hounded like Caroline Flack was. Be proud of your rare victory against the #CPS
@northyorksc I am shocked too. I will fill in the forms today asking for it to be removed as how you have treated me a father of a vulnerable child is shockinng.
If I disappear offline. Ask questions as to where I am, get the media/press to investigate as it means there has been an attempt to silence me. Well enough is enough, I want justice for myself, my children and anyone else affected by #domesticabuse and #policecorruption in #UK
Hi @RichardCPiper Would you support breath-testing in all #domesticviolence situations? On 1st July 2022 my drunk ex woke me, stopped me going to toilet then strangled me. Evidence of her excess drinking in rooms but @CPSUK put me the victim through court for using very limited self defence when I was blacking out as she strangled me @Dorsetecho
https://t.co/VFhWPRlziZ
@NYorksPolice #domesticabuse #attemptedmurder #domesticviolence #alcoholism
Simon Tilley has an IQ of 142 & his day job is a financial auditor.
He is a member of mensa, which means he's in the top 1% of the most intelligent people in the UK!
Yet, plods with an IQ of 70 (if they're lucky), twist his amazing journalism for stalking.
#FreeSimonTilley
yes. She's been married 5 times. Has a 3rd daughter she had at 17 that she doesn't acknowledge, made her daughters sleep on roundabouts in #Dorchester round random guys houses for her love life over them. And people wonder why I have a fear about my youngest child. @northyorksc