Then you speak:
"We are not like other couples. You were never for me. You don’t touch me. Our spark… our lust… our love… gone 10 years ago. I’ve kept this hurt hidden."
I’m shocked.
I thought money broke us.
I gave everything.
But the truth?
Our spark died the day we married
12 yrs ago, I was wild,cruel,ignored you, dumped you,broke your heart.
I came back. You gave everything, hitting my spot again and again. We were addicted to each other.
Our love was pure lust. Penetration was our drug. We OD’ed on pleasure, like today was our last day.
After 10 years… we still here.
But as strangers.
You ignore me.
I keep pushing. Provoking.
Can't move on.
We argue.
Same things. Over and over.
Exhaustion never ends.
Both tired.
We get married. My baddie slowly remove. I became a yesman and our lust faded. Money becomes a pain. We cried, we held. Days → weeks → months → years. Then, politely, you asked to separate. My world shattered and lost. You hated me. Distance grew. Only kids keeping us close
relationships are meant to be happy and positive and loving. period. y’all can have a bad day. but you’re not supposed to feel stressed out, confused, angry, unloved, etc the MAJORITY of the time. that’s unacceptable.
CORRECT ME IF I'M WRONG BUT, As a man, No one cares about you. Not your wife. Not your family. Not your friends. Not your workmates. Nobody. People act like they care, but deep down, they don't. You are on your own. Always on your own.
Kings, if another man is able to get close with your chic, flirt with her & tease her, SHE IS THE PROBLEM.
The fact that another man is getting the audience & attention from your chic is a reflection of how she is with other men.
Break off.
Had situation and easy at the same time
We are the people that can give u the most logical answer since u are still feeling love for her
She is seeing another dude
So it’s easy , end the relationship
U can’t fix this
It’s gonna be painful
Also don’t think you are terrible in bed …
Even if you were , if she loves you , she will communicate what she likes
So do the needful