Blessers continue to ruin the dating market for young men. I heard a story today. A certain blesser bought his girlfriend an iPhone 17. The girlfriend then told him that her younger sister was also admiring the phone, so the man went and bought the younger sister one too. Now both sisters have boyfriends their own age. Imagine the situation. Their boyfriends send MK50,000, and they are thinking, โ50k ndi ndalamaso?โ Of course, MK50,000 is not a lot of money, but neither sister earned the iPhone herself, and neither is making MK50,000 on her own. Even if these two sisters were not dating now, the next guy would not know that whatever he does will be compared to what the blesser did. The blesser has completely distorted their perception of money, effort, and relationships. Young men are now competing with men who have a 20 year financial head start, and in the process, both the dating experience and the value of genuine effort are undermined!
There is money in this world. Insane money. Your mates are making ridiculous money out there because of information, access, and network. Pressure yourself, you are not doing enough.