It is truly baffling to me how a lot of women think that admiring someone as a friend and developing a crush on them are mutually exclusive things.
It's actually the opposite, a guy is infinitely more likely to fall in love with you if he enjoys your company as a friend.
This is such an alien mindset for me as a man, because being friends with someone and gradually having it evolve into a relationship seems like the ideal scenario. It shows that they don't just like you for shallow reasons. You already like each, now you can love each other.
@AdolphsonFalkk most times if the friendship is deep the guy fell in love with u BECAUSE of your human qualities like your personality. There's fucking easier ways to sleep with a woman than spend years faking a friendship.
A boys canon event is having a girl friend who every time you look at her your world brightens, where seeing her in class is the best part of your day. Where the sound of her voice and laugh echo throughout your brain.
This friend, who you see as so perfect and beautiful, then signals for years that she may feel the same about you too. Sometimes itโs the way she hugs you, the way she may rest her head on your neck, or the way sheโll look at your eyes.
This will go on for years, and then one day youโll finally give into the agony and simply tell her how you feel and sheโll fucking hate you for the rest of your life.
@bussdowncasio lmaooo "whole world" and its engagement farmers pushing a narrative. You literally can't point to any real evidence without contradicting yourself. Its just because people can't comprehend how good messi is they have to justify with shit like this.
I been told to leave my husband for saying I would respect his opinion on something that would change our lives rather than just do whatever I want.
I was told I should have had aborted my sons.
I was told they hope my sons die a horrible death.
I was told my 1 year old deserved the hatred they were giving him because "he probably did something to deserve it".
I was told me being a temporary SAHM is feeding "the patriarchy system".
I was told I'm a pickme for any opinion I hold about supporting good men or that is about holding bad women accountable.
I was told my cousin's suicide was a good thing to happen when talking about why I care about male suicide stats.
All by women who claim to be feminists.
So no, I don't believe when you say "feminists don't hate men or boys" and I don't believe that we are free to do what we want or even be free to think what we want.
@masochistmartyr I've seen way more stories the other way round of girls losing interest and respect for a man when he pours his heart out and loves too hard
@lowelogf NO. men just have a baseline attraction standard u have to meet. From there they decide if they just wanna have sex with you(which is maybe why they might keep u around despire disliking you) or if they see a future with you based off your PERSONALITY.
It also just doesnโt make sense. Every decade men have fewer and fewer close friends. They donโt post on instagram to flex for their friends. Is every guy antsy to post his gf asap? No. Guys like spending time with you and touching you. Thatโs the whole point of them dating you.
These people just aren't serious. They actively dilute the idea of rape then get mad when men point it out
Its very sick and twisted when you think about it