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BA(Econ,Soc)UoN. Director Legislative Services-County Assembly of Turkana. My Goal; to leave this World better. Views mine

[George Njoroge @georgenjoroge_]

THE LONELY END OF A GOOD MAN.

This is the Story of My Friend, Moses Kinuthia, my campus buddy.

Since he has allowed me to share. We were in JKUAT together. Young. Loud. Brilliant.

Full of plans about the future and how we would conquer the world.

Today, Moses is an IT Director at one of the leading commercial banks in the country.

On paper, he is the definition of success.
A man who did everything right.
A man who climbed every rung through discipline and sacrifice.

But this is the part nobody sees.

His day starts before the sun.
He leaves home quietly at 5:20 AM, careful not to wake anyone.
The children are asleep.
His wife barely turns.
Moses tiptoes around the house he pays for, moving like a visitor in the place he built.

He gets to work before everyone because that is where his life makes sense.
At the office, doors open.
People greet him with respect.
Colleagues seek his advice.
Managers rely on him.
In that building, Moses still exists.

But in the house he returns to every evening, he has become a ghost.

When he gets home, the living room is always full kids watching shows, his wife on the phone, her sister in law using the TV.
There is never a seat left for him.
Never a moment that feels like his.

So Moses has learned a ritual.
He walks to his car, closes the door gently, leans the seat back and watches the 7PM news on his phone.

Sometimes he sits there long after the news ends, just staring at the roof of the car, breathing slowly, trying to feel human again.

When there is a football match, he connects his phone to the car speakers.
He used to shout at the TV with joy once, now he celebrates in silence, alone in the driveway, like a boy hiding with stolen sugarcane.

Inside the house, nobody asks where he is.
Nobody wonders why he eats dinner late.
Nobody notices that he spends more time in the car than in his own living room.

His 13–year–old son, the one he dreamt of bonding with, is always locked away in his room gaming.

The gaming console Moses bought — hoping for father–son weekends is still in its box.
His wife said the cables “make the house look untidy.”

So the box stays on the top shelf.
And the distance between father and son grows quietly, day by day.

Weekends are no different.

On Saturdays, Moses sometimes walks into a house full of chama ladies sipping tea, laughing loudly.

He greets them, forces a smile and walks back out before he blocks the doorway.

He strolls around the estate until his feet ache.
He listens to the sounds of other families in their living rooms; laughter, loud TV, playful arguments things he does not remember the last time he experienced.

When he finally returns at dusk, his younger daughter is watching cartoons on the bedroom TV.
The only other TV is in use.
So Moses sits on the edge of his bed, watching highlights on his phone, pretending he is fine.

Bills keep coming.
The mortgage letter.
The water disconnection threat.
The residents association notice.
Security warnings.
School fees.

Everyone depends on him.
Nobody checks on him.

Yet he never complains.
Because he believes a man must carry the weight silent and steady.

But silence has a cost.

Last month, he told me something that broke me.

“Bro, I feel like I’m disappearing in slow motion. I am alive, but I don’t think anyone would notice if I stopped showing up.”

This is the lonely end of a good man.
A man who gave everything.
A man who showed up every day.
A man who traded his youth, his rest, his hobbies and his peace for his family.

And somehow, without doing anything wrong, he became invisible in the story of his own life.

He is not hated.
He is not mistreated.
He is simply used and unseen which is sometimes worse.

He sits in his car after work because it is the only place he feels the world pause long enough for him to breathe.

He eats alone.
He celebrates alone.
He stresses alone.
He survives alone.

Not because he failed as a man but because good men often fade in the very homes they built

[Tioko Patrice @PatrickTioko]

Ambassador H.E @eelokaale 🙌🙌🫡

[Tioko Patrice @PatrickTioko]

Till we meet again Baba 😭

[Tioko Patrice @PatrickTioko]

15.10.2025. A true Kenyan Patriot takes a bow. A true son of the Soil who had Kenya at heart. He was a consequential leader. Even in death Kenya, Africa and the World Love him. Fare thee well Baba 💔

[Tioko Patrice @PatrickTioko]

15.10.2025 - A true Kenyan Patriot @RailaOdinga bows out…
Even in death Kenya, Africa and the World Love him. We will greatly miss him. Fare thee well Baba 😭

[Tioko Patrice @PatrickTioko]

Tupatane Kakuma| Bunge Mashinani

[County Assembly of Turkana @TurkanaAssembly]

Pursuant to Article 196 of the Constitution of Kenya, Section 115 of the County Government Act, 2012 & Standing Orders of the County Assembly of Turkana, the House has resolved to hold its plenary & committee sittings in Kakuma, Turkana West Sub-County from 23rd -27th June 2025

[Tioko Patrice @PatrickTioko]

Turkana Nation is happy 🙌

[Tioko Patrice @PatrickTioko]

Thank you your Excellency @WilliamsRuto President of Republic of Kenya for nominating wakili @erastusethekon as Chair @IEBCKenya. Turkana Nation is happy. We shall repay tenfold. @GovernorNanok

[Tioko Patrice @PatrickTioko]

Well said Prof. 🙌🙌

[Prof Makau Mutua @makaumutua]

THE nomination of lawyer Erastus Ethekon as @IEBCKenya Chairperson is a triumph of merit and competence and a nod to the constitutional norm of inclusivity and demarginalization. I have every confidence that he will do a great job @EthekonErastus.

[Tioko Patrice @PatrickTioko]

@MigunaMiguna @WilliamsRuto @MigunaMiguna accept and move on. This is pure meritocracy, before hurling insults, walk through @erastusethekon journey. Turkana Nation is proud of her son. Kenya is for all of us, we are not half citizens.

[County Assembly of Turkana @TurkanaAssembly]

This morning, Speaker of @TurkanaAssembly paid a courtesy call to @UNICEFKenya Country Representative @ShaheenSnilofer at the UNICEF offices in Gigiri, Nairobi.

[Refugee Consortium of Kenya (RCK) @RCKKenya]

We are delighted to announce the launch of the Inclusive Refugee Response Programme (#IRRP), a transformative initiative supported by @denmarkinkenya that aims to enhance the rights, access to services, socio-economic inclusion of refugees and host communities in Turkana County.

[Tioko Patrice @PatrickTioko]

Future Blaugrana crushes the current Los Blancos in a Super Cup El Classico duel.

Viva Barcelona!!!

[County Assembly of Turkana @TurkanaAssembly]

STATE OF THE COUNTY ADDRESS

Pursuant to Section30(2)(k) of the County Governments Act and the County Assembly of Turkana Standing Orders, H.E @GvnLomorukai will deliver the State of the County Address on Tuesday, 3rd December, 2024 at the County Assembly Chamber.

[County Assembly of Turkana @TurkanaAssembly]

From advocating for policy changes to providing critical on-the-ground support, their efforts have transformed countless lives. This award is a testament to their impactful work & relentless efforts. Thank you RCK for your commitment.
We are proud to stand with you!

[County Assembly of Turkana @TurkanaAssembly]

A HUGE CONGRATULATIONS to @RCKKenya our long standing partner , for being awarded the Civil Society Organization of the Year 2024! RCK has been an unwavering champion for the rights of refugees,working tirelessly to ensure they are treated with dignity & respect.

[Amb. Ekitela Lokaale @eelokaale]

I was honoured to host the Cabinet Secretary for Blue Economy and Maritime Affairs Hon. @HassanAliJoho, the Principal Secretary for Blue Economy @PS_Betsy_Njagi and Senator @ledamalekina at the @KenyaMissionUN.

We had concrete proposals on how to advance Kenya’s maritime sector and blue economy in the multilateral space including through ratification by Kenya of the BBNJ Treaty.

Karibu New York, Waziri.

[Tioko Patrice @PatrickTioko]

@SingoeiAKorir @RISSNetherlands Our dear friend @SingoeiAKorir , Congratulations to your daughter Denise.