At the end of the day we all want someone who is going to have our backs. Someone who is going to stick up for us. Someone who can’t stand to see you disrespected.
If they let someone disrespect you in front of them they aren’t the one. Find someone who is willing to speak up.
Truth is your partner should be shown off. You should be proud of them and be their hype man. There’s no point in the relationship if you aren’t completely obsessed.