Few thoughts heading into the New Year:
Time doesn’t heal anything. You have to do the work in that time to heal. Get the therapy you need, not reposting quotes like actually go get therapy. Most importantly, forgive yourself. Everyday forgive yourself.
@OBSXSSION1 Zanzibar is beautiful, can’t wait to go back! And the annoying thing about her post is that getting what you pay for is true of Europe too. Certain parts of Corfu etc even are underdeveloped or ‘not that nice’
Sometimes you’ll get exactly what you prayed for and it will scare you, because once you have it in your hands, it’s under your control, and that level of responsibility can be overwhelming. So in all your prayers, pray for wisdom too, so you know how to handle your blessings…
My therapist once told me…
"Anger is the part of yourself that loves you the most. It knows when you are being mistreated, neglected, disrespected. It signals that you have to take a step out of a place that doesn't do you justice. It makes you aware that you need to leave a room, a job, a relationship, old patterns that don't work for you anymore. Learn to listen to your anger and make it your best friend. Then it'll leave."
And that stuck with me forever.