“I believe in being kind, but only where kindness is not a slow suicide. I believe in generosity, but only where it flows both ways. I believe in love, but not if it requires a war with myself.” 🩷
True, I stopped blaming myself for everything I did in the past, because back then I was only acting based on what I understood at the time. I can’t punish the older version of me forever for not knowing better.
Soalnya jjur bingung harus gimana lagi, komplen di socmed dianggap lalu, kasar dikit disiram air keras, komplen di depan gedung ditangkep dan diteror2 keluarganya, nrimo jg gk ikhlas dan gk ada tenaga krn disetting kerja sampe burn out untuk bisa survive.. gila bgt jadi wni
calling my lover "mine" but not in the way that my toothbrush or notebook are mine, mine in the way my neighborhood is mine, and also everybody else's, "mine" like mine to tend to, mine to care for, mine to love. "mine" not like possession but devotion.
hidup di sini udah stres dan suram... romantisasi itu gratis....... romantisasi semua kegiatan kalau bisa selama gak merugikan orang dan gak mematikan rasa kritis