@Megannibyniaeth So sorry you need to deal w that crap! You are beautiful!! 💕 It is abhorrent how often women get called fat or dismissed in the dating world by men. They have no shame in doing it either as if they were entitled to! Even when THEY are old, bald, short, fat, skinny, or ugly! 🤦🏼♀️
@AhnaLovell Oh my! 😱💔 That is ghastly. So, so sorry! You described it very well. He is not thinking straight. I will 🙏🏻 that he wakes up! Don't give up trying to reach him!
It is never fair to the victim to have to go no contact with a parent. It is forced upon them. No one would choose to have to take this step. They are not cruel or unforgiving. They are surviving and wish if could've been different. But, they are strong enough to know it won't be
Anyone else in love with the idea of love? In lust over the idea of marriage? Sucker for a wedding? A hopeless romantic? Yet, in reality, have no use for any of it bcs it is not worth all the effort? The complications of being a cynic in ♥️ with ♥️. 😂
@AhnaLovell I am actually thinking of a few diff families right now where same happened. It is usually the son who marries a female narc & she destroys his family. Usually bcs she wants more control. Vile. In these cases, eventually, it imploded & the victim saw it. Still so devastating.
@AhnaLovell I am sorry for you! 💔 Tweets are limited in scope. My tweet referred to adult children or older kids that are left no choice but to go no contact bcs their parent(s) are abusive. Not all tweets refer to all things.
Adults could have protected you. Adults could have treated you better. Adults could have believed you. Adults could have shown you love. You were a child. They chose not to. You deserved better. Far better. And, they do not deserve you.
Two capable, child-focused parents don't end up in the family courts. By the time they realise the mental and financial cost they tend to sort it out & co-parent. To understand parental alienation, one must understand who the majority of users of the family courts are. 1/7
Women esp. are prone to saying "sorry" a lot. We may do it to be nice or polite. But, in this broken world, it often translates into "target" for abusers. Apologize when you do wrong only. Don't throw around the word "sorry".
@legalella "Parental Alienation" is code for fathers who want to deny truth of kid's experience w them plus a handy legal strategy for abusers to implement for leverage. And, that's about it. I know PA ppl will foam at the mouth but what they describe is not same concept as what is used.