normalize seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in YOU and your lack of importance to them regardless of what they tell you or how much you love them
not because you cut the connection, it doesn't mean you hate them. you cut it, for a reason that it may be peaceful for you, and for them. sometimes, you need to make decision that would hurt you deeply, but will give you tranquility.
I can’t express this enough, you have NO IDEA what other people carry with them everyday. You have NO IDEA what someone’s life is like. Don’t create more pain & stress to others. Be kind. BE genuine. Stop being so mean to people to fulfill whatever it is you don’t like about you
I DON'T LIKE when ppl try to make it seem like you the bad person in situations when it really be the other way around.. especially when you’re a genuine person.. they won’t ever speak on how they treated you or what caused you to draw away from them. They wont speak on all the
A healing stage is disgust. Yes, disgust. You will be DISGUSTED by the people whose love you seeked. You will feel embarrassed about the choices you made and the people who had access to you who didn’t deserve it. Feel this feeling then let it go.
That will NEVER be you again.
Gaslighting is when they constantly cause you to feel crazy & confused. They play the victim by blaming you when you address their toxic behaviour. They manipulate by lying, denying & deflecting – making you question your sanity, feelings & facts. It's mental and emotional abuse.
if you’re in a loyal committed relationship never let your FRIENDS determine & decide how you should deal with your partner..at the end of the day you’re the only person who truly knows & understands your partner they only know what you tell them.