You're just making a way to disappoint yourself on the way you expect from someone. It's a give and take, just give what they will give to you, let's take it balance.
DON'T EXPECT AND DON'T OVEREXTEND !
it's way too deep, they both have a point though. But i am more on jane side, idk like giving too much to someone you don't know if they can reciprocate those It's just a waste of effort and time and probably in the end talo ka.
We care too much, we pour our whole self to someone, we expect much from others and it's not a good thing for yourself and to people around you. You can't just expect that people will reciprocate your efforts that they will do the same, that's not how it works.
this au really an eyeopener to everyone. Stop being too kind like it will cause u a burden and worst pain. In this world, being kind is not a good thing to do, people won't reciprocate your kind instead they will throw you away after using you and your kind.
Yeah okay let's say being kind is really a good thing and that's what we should do but we are in this society, toxic society. They will just take advantage of your kindness, they will just drain you and in the end mauubos ka to the point that you don't have to give.
march lee is someone who's draining his self(probably for him not) to give everything to others even though walang wala na rin s'ya. I don't think i will be that someone someday uhmm jane is right we are already drained to give everything to people.
how the fuck march know all of this? that's the exact word jane's need woahhh that's crazy actually someone you will see right through you, someone that will understand the thoughts inside your mind and someone who is capable of reading your mind.
So, try your best. our best to at least try to believe and trust ourselves, step by step there's no pressure : )
π : to everyone who's struggling to trust and believe in themselves and to my future self.
we are all jane in the real world, trusting yourself is way too hard for us it's like a battle, you and yourself. Sometimes it's getting too hard because we let our fears control ourselves and our decision, we let them in so probably they will take advantage of u n will eat u up.
Trusting and believing in yourself is way too hard, it is. It's like a long journey for you to achieve, but trusting and believing in yourself will help you to find you, yourself, your true self, your likes and most importantly your dreams.