seriously J&T? paket simple dari jawa sampai harus tunggu 9 hari?
sampai di jakarta direshedule terus sama kurirnya seolah ga niat anterin ๐
ini lamanya uda kayak kirim paket dari afrika hahaha
Acceptance: this is the turning point, you can see things objectively and with clear lense
"It is what it is" state of mind is the strongest unshakable character which put responsibility on YOU
Meaning you have control of your own problem not the other way around
Depression: worst case scenario BECAUSE we do the previous 3 stages
You dont want to lose appetite, no motivation and less energy everytime you encounter a problem right?
One day or another
Your bestest friend has the potential to leave you
Either you PATH WAYS or OUTGROW each others
But its totally fine
Its meant to be
They only need to be on certain chapters of your life
And in the end you still have YOU
YOU who never leave
@StevenShiben @jordanbpeterson People who only care about happiness and denying what is right would never be truly happy
Involving in bad habits make you happy no? Junk food, drugs, drinking make you happy until you "realize"
I wish the best for our world ๐
People often seem conflicted with their self improvement journey as if it will shatter "who they are"
But your habit, emotion, and character is not who you are
You start your journey because you love who you are and want the best for you not to feel good after you have improved
Here Now when I'm nobody and have nothing
I state that I am happy with who I am
With all my strengths and weaknesses, will all my qualities and flaws
I am accepting who I am
And therefore and for that as a reason, I am going to keep improving till death and I will still be happy
So, my decision is firm. I will my life full of kindness, like sun radiating its light, I will light others' part without sacrificing myself like a candle.
I realize that kindness is not weakness, its a STRENGTH!
Just make sure to be assertive and set healthy boundaries. (:
Being kind to others is one thing that make sure whenever I meet people, part of it maybe from the pain I feel and I don't want others to feel the same way. Some other part maybe people pleasing but I never thought it that way. My doings are purely my intention and I am happy
But I don't think I will. Especially after today I got a very unexpected confession from my friend. That it is my kindness that saved them from attempt for suicide which I myself does not even expect. Its crazy and wonderful, that my simple act could save a life.