I don't internalize men's actions and I don't think any woman should. They are often at war with themselves, it most likely has nothing to do with you, so just make sure you stay far away from it all when you catch a whiff of it.
My ex used to get mad at guys who hit on me and try to fight every single one of them, and then somehow blame me later. My current man will laugh with me and kiss me on the forehead when I get hit on and say: "what can I say, you're beautiful"
Ladies, wait for THAT man.
You guys forget that boundaries are about self-control, not controlling the behaviour of others. Under a strict regime, the lawbreaker faces execution or banishment. There are no hearings, trials, or prisons 🙏🏾