chloé

heavy on God | can be emotionally unstable | simp for politics | 🇨🇩🇸🇩🇵🇸

[frida's child 🩸 @ModesteSirri]

to be a man must be sweet, chai! 😂

they never have to lift a finger to advocate for themselves because there's always an army of women eager to serve.

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

one thing... I CAN NOT STAND.... is being ignored. if you're busy, say so. if you are not in the mood to talk, say so. if you are done with me, SAY SO. COMMUNICATE.

[A F I K A @AfikaSoyamba]

I don’t think people fully understand what’s happening in South Africa.

The Madlanga Commission is exposing difficult truths.

People are marching and demanding accountability.

Leaders like Dr. Nasiphi Moya are busy trying to turn municipalities around instead of making excuses.

Despite all the noise, South Africa keeps moving.

This is exactly why we must fight for this country.

Not because it’s perfect.

Because it’s ours.

The future of South Africa won’t be decided by those who complain the loudest.

It will be built by those who choose to fix it.

[FRESHCUTGREENS @Breanna_haul]

For a group that claims to be victims of systemic hate and violence, y'all sure do exude that exact same toxicity the second a woman doesn't bend to your demands.

[Enomfon Akpan @mydearenomfon]

Sexuality is a choice until it's "straight women making those choices".

[GodsParadox🕸️⚜️ @GodzParadox]

I think what yesterday’s discourse has made apparent is that a lot of ppl within the queer community don’t respect non queer ppls boundaries or sexual orientation.

[certified lover girl💫 @chelseyfranciss]

Good morning

Yk what I’m Beginning to believe modern feminism has gone to shit

Wdym you’re defending men’s right because he’s bisexual???? And telling me it’s rooted in misogyny not to want him omfg

[Eniolaa @Ennyfromdblock]

The women writing dissertations defending bi men should please continue. While your own rights as women are being chipped away, make sure no man’s dating prospects suffer. Very noble work. President General🙌🏾👏🤣🤣

[Enomfon Akpan @mydearenomfon]

For people who claim to be radical feminists, you sure do defend men.

Calling women names because of men? Because they don't want to date certain kinds of men? So this is the feminism now? Bending over backwards to tell women how to use their own vagina?

"Internalized misogyny" because I said I don't want to date a man who dates other men? Crazy work, mehn.

[FRESHCUTGREENS @Breanna_haul]

"Bioessentialism" is the new pseudo-intellectual buzzword to shame women for having a sexual orientation.

Demanding women "interrogate" and dismantling their natural sexual attractions just to grant men access isn't "dismantling patriarchy", it IS patriarchy in a same font!

[FRESHCUTGREENS @Breanna_haul]

also…the core of LGBTQ+ advocacy is that sexuality isn't up for public debate.

Betraying that principle just to guilt-trip straight women into auditing who they sleep with is peak hypocrisy. You can't scream "born this way" while trying to re-educate my consent! 🚶🏽‍♀️

[Abongile @BowNkambule]

All I know is that no one would guilt trip straight men into dating transwomen.

[⚢ex seniggalese🔻 @haramhomo]

Asking someone to “unpack” why they don’t want to sleep with you is very rapey idc. No means no.

No one owes you sex even if you’re part of a marginalized group. Not getting laid is not a human rights violation.

[GodsParadox🕸️⚜️ @GodzParadox]

I think what a lot of the gay / queer community fails to realize is that straight people are straight.

They’re at one fixed end of the spectrum as it pertains to sexuality and romantic interest.

It’s extremely disingenuous to frame their fixed position as being phobic because they are literally straight and have no interest in queerness as their orientation is fixed.

[Rosemary Egbo @rosemaryegbo]

Straight women do not owe bisexual men a relationship. It's their preference to date straight men and there's absolutely no buzzword you throw around that can change that.

You can be whatever you want to be, and it's also women’s right to not want to date you for who you are.

[uTamnci! @linamandla_Nts]

Tyla uvuthiwe!

Accidentally heard one song at the gym, and boom, the album is on my gym playlist.

Umnandi la Apop

[j💟 @bxkigx2]

asking women to unpack and explain why we won’t date/sleep with certain men as if our bodies are public institutions meant to be accessible to every male 😭😭😭

[Alu🫧. @anathibaby]

Ndiyamva mna There is no reason why anyone should be explaining why one refuses to date a bisexual man .The thought alone is scary and akhonto iwrongo apho.

[Daisy @DaizyZeeX]

Maybe i am too woke 🤷🏻‍♀️ but I'm actually glad birth rates are declining. Not because children are a burden, but because more people are finally realising they're not fit to be parents and that's a far kinder decision than bringing a child into a life they're not prepared for.

[Mbaliyezwe @mbali_ndlela]

The Joburg skyline?🤩

Tyla always gives a nod to South Africa.