Did you know that in most cities, it could cost you nearly $10K just to move to another rental?
If you secure an apartment for $2K, then you’re likely paying:
1st months rent: $2K
Security: $2k
Broker’s fee= 2 months ($4k)
Moving fee: $1500
That’s $9500!
As a therapist, I found one common dynamic that keeps people in a cycle of feeling hurt and misunderstood.
This dynamic is called the determiner and saver:
People don't actually want advice. They already know what they should be doing. They want someone to listen and support them.
Here's how to stop giving unsolicited advice: