I reallyyyyy cannot be with somebody who’s dismissive of my feelings ! I understand you may not agree, understand or that it may not even be of the same importance to you BUT… do NOT be dismissive of whatever it is I’m feeling ! That’s a HUGE pet peeve !
I do not handle hurt well at all and I do not like who I become when I am hurting. That's why I really don't like being mistreated or played with. If you aren't genuine, don't even bother me, Just move around.
I told my therapist:
“I’m not suicidal…
but I’m tired in a way that scares me.”
She didn’t brush it off.
She didn’t say “everyone gets tired.”
She didn’t tell me to think positive.
She said softly: