Choosing to focus on my peace & not settling brought my focus back to regaining my relationship with god, drawing closer to my goals that align with my real values and morals which brought me true peace & blessings, I thank god everyday for. Choose you always and trust Gods plan.
I do not think that cheating is something that should be normalized to forgive & then just rekindle. It’s a choice. Choose to Be with someone who knows what they have the first time around, who truly appreciates you and will not do ANYTHING to lose you without having to lose you.
Never have I thought of myself to be better than anyone but the mindsets/character some have, I will just not associate myself with or allow. There is no way at this grown age you do not know how to act/carry yourself to be a decent human being. You got one time to come correct.
Healing rather than repeating cycles taught me that Speaking about your feelings & Setting boundaries won't lose you anything worth having but only remove things that do not align, making room for quality which eventually brings you peace and a better relationship within yourself
One thing about me I will never do anyone how they have done me, I will ultimately forgive you but I won’t forget.. I’ve learned that forgiveness does not need to come with rekindling and making someone feel bad for wanting different is so selfish..
Having a good heart is not for the weak, it will have you feeling bad and selfish for choosing what’s right for you and prioritizing your peace for once.