You're supposed to use every unfair advantage you have. Looks, genetics, connections, dad's money, whatever.
There's nothing noble about choosing the hardest path just to feel like an underdog.
Quiet/laid back/reserved people are commonly referred to as antisocial. That's totally misplaced. Antisocial people are delinquents. Misfits. Those who go against societal norms. You see someone who doesn't speak much, they are simply asocial or non social.
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As a man learn to be dangerous & unpredictable. Don't go telling your wife every move you make, toka kwa nyumba enda Congo, wacha apigiwe simu aambiwe umeshikwa na Rebels.