Watch out for the new Christian agnostics who tell us not to be certain about anything the Bible says then turn around and speak with certainty about ideological conclusions.
We should be honest and humble about what we don’t know without being blind to what God’s made clear.
As a married complimentarian man, I take issue here. First, I don’t think there’s any theological support of us being our wives saviors rather than loving, sacrificing, protecting and providing like Christ has/does
2) This again is implying that marriage is a type of Apex of the Christian life without which you are incomplete or missing something. Paul certainly doesn’t see it that way as he talks about the benefits of remaining single. Also, women can be fulfilled without marriage; if not then there’s a BIG problem as God would have some remain single and therefore incomplete.
I also think about how folks may not think about particular contexts. Black women are some of the most perpetually single women in and outside of the church - how is this suppose to land on them? You don’t have to think about that when you don’t have a church full of single black women - this would be communicating to them that they are missing all of these things if they don’t have a husband, therefore missing a big chunk of who they’re supposed to be unless a man comes along. Nah.
You can manage the pain of resisting evil— it’s the giving in to it that’s hard to come back from. Struggle not to give up or struggle with the destruction that follows giving in.
Choose your pain wisely…
Had a friend (fellow black man) that tried to sell his brand new home (he has several properties) and he had all kinds of folks that were interested but after they visited they didn’t bite. He took down all his pics and let a white man show the house and it sold immediately