@stelanau Jadi ingat line di Novelnya Jane Austen, "Nursing does not belong to a man; it is not his province. A sick child is always the mother's property: her own feelings generally make it so." _ Persuasion
@tanyarlfes Aku di sini nangkepnya "wajar" itu karena kultur di Madura emang udah biasa sejak remaja, dan cowok² seumuran Valen ngerokok. Kalau mau dibilangin ya, gak gitu ngaruh.
Kenapa banyak pasangan cowok jelek dan cewek cantik (tapi tidak sebaliknya)?
男刚女柔,乾坤定矣.
Man is Hard (Yang), Woman is Soft (Yin); thus Heaven and Earth are established.
The man endures the storms, so the woman can remain smooth and glossy.
It's "Beauty and the Beast", not "Handsome and the Beast".
The man absorbs the ugliness of the world, so the woman can remain beautiful.
The man works hard, gets spat on by his boss, backstabbed by co-workers, so he can buy skincare for his woman.
That's the destiny for men.
@alldayonmarzz No salty, Suatu hari, kenalanku yang dari China waktu student exchange di Indonesia bilang: kenapa cewek² di Indonesia cakep² tapi cowoknya enggak.