Being able to call a nigga and actually depend on him is a flex. I can do it alone, but knowing somebody got my back and makes my life lighter ? That’s top tier. 💕
It kills some people that they don't know what you're up to, so all they can do is gossip about you - that's how important you are to their life. Remember, people only gossip about those who lead a more interesting life than their own. You must be doing something right.
EVERY ngga gone teach you something 😭 either he gone show you what real love, effort, loyalty, and protection look like… OR he gone teach you the game and force you to stop ignoring red flags. Either way, take the lesson and KEEP GOING 💯
Unfortunately, sometimes you have to get a little mean just to remind people you’re not the one to play with. Everybody doesn’t respect kindness, and some people will keep testing you as long as you keep being nice about it. I can have a good heart and still have boundaries. I can love you and still check you. And I can be kind without allowing anybody to disrespect me. If being nice makes you think I’m weak, eventually you’re going to meet the version of me that makes you understand the difference.