Men who say "women strip naked in front of the camera when they need money, men do hard labor when they need money" ignore these women and erase their existence because they don't serve men's misogynistic and reactionary narratives
i have not seen one marriage in my life that hasn't been dependent on the woman giving up her ambitions, hopes, and dreams. all to simply carry the babies of a man who neither respects her or other women. but if you point this out, suddenly you're evil
Even in Islam, we're taught to make hijrah. If you don't like where you are, move. If your environment drains you, change it. If what influences you isn't good for you, walk away. There's nothing wrong with leaving what harms you.