"Never waste years on a woman who isn't sure about you.
I used to tell myself:
'Maybe she'll change...'
'Once I achieve more...'
'It's just a phase...'
Here's the truth:
When someone truly wants you - you won't need to beg for scraps of attention.
Young man, remember:
- If you have to convince her, you've already lost
- If she ignores you, that's not a test - it's your answer
- If 'I don't know' is her favorite response, walk away before she destroys your self-worth
Your energy is currency.
Only invest in those who match your enthusiasm.
Don't learn this lesson through scars like we did."
To all young men reading this-listen close, this might save you years:
I mistook her beauty for loyalty.
I confused comfort with purpose.
I delayed my mission for love that wasn’t real.
I trusted people who clapped while I bled.
I played humble when I should’ve played hungry.
I avoided risk and paid the price in regret.
I spent time proving my worth instead of building it.
I let pleasure steal my discipline
and discipline is everything.
Here’s the truth:
Protect your focus. Marry your purpose. Stay dangerous.
Because one wrong woman, one lazy year, or one emotional decision
Can set your life back a decade.
Read that again.
You're a man. Stop telling people what you're going through. No matter how stressful it is. Solve your problems alone. Sympathy is only for women and kids, not for men.
@DearS_o_n Marriage is only for extending your linage. Every other goal can be achieved successfully and with less stress and effort outside of the constraints of marriage.
Do not speak about how rich you are in front of a poor person.
Do not speak about how happy you are in front of a sad person.
Do not speak about how healthy you are in front of a sick person.
Do not speak about how wonderful your life is in front of someone going through a hard time.
You will thank me later.