ngl,this year really woke me up. I see clearly now,who's for me and never was. I learned to set boundaries, stop overextending myself and stop pouring into cups that don't pour back. it's not easy,but it's necessary and peaceful
I actually dislike bad manners. Why do grown adults find it hard to say please, thank you, & excuse me? You literally get taught all these as a child.
My biggest red flag is that if you don’t talk to me, I won’t talk to you either, not because I don’t want to, but because I think the other person doesn’t want to talk to me. I just give them their space so I don’t smother them.